Celebrating Life, Reflecting Love: Steps to Memorializing a Loved One
Losing a loved one is very difficult and painful in many ways. The grief journey can include many practical tasks that must be completed from funeral planning to memorial design. Society has been changing its views and ideas surrounding funerals, burials and monuments. Amongst these changes a strong desire remains to create sacred spaces, where we remember those we’ve lost. How do we best memorialize a loved one’s life? Where does a family even begin? Here are 3 helpful tips that may help you.
1. Know the cemetery and its regulations: Cemeteries all have different regulations regarding monuments. Any professional retailer will double check with the cemetery before ordering the memorial. However, if you talk to the cemetery first, try to gather information on regulations, so that you have first-hand knowledge of what is allowed. This will help you know what type of monument you are able to purchase.
2. Ask the simple questions about the process: Don’t hesitate to ask questions. You should be able to learn the quality of the granite, the length of production process, as well as, the cost for the varying types of memorials. As a rule, granite is priced by its color. Certain colors cost less, and certain colors cost more. Some granites may also be more resistant to discoloration. You should be encouraged to make an informed decision. Take your time through this process. This is a decision that is made very seldom in life, and you want to make sure that you get exactly what you want.
3. Design with a professional: A trusted retailer will walk you through the process thoroughly, building your knowledge to make an informed decision. There are design limitations when using the different materials, such as, granite, bronze and marble. A monument design can drastically change by altering the color of granite. Choose a monument designer who will explain every aspect of the design, material, and cost. Make sure they can show you the finished artwork before you make any decision to ensure you are ordering the correct monument size for the desired artwork. Also, go to a retailer who will design with you in person, and not send you future drawings or quickly drawn pencil sketches. The financial commitment you are making requires that you get to see exactly what you are purchasing.
The Dayton area has a long history in monument making. When you face the task of purchasing a monument, be armed with the information to make the right decision, and don’t be afraid to ask questions. Make sure you are getting the best price. At the end of the day, go with someone you trust, who will help you celebrate life lived and reflect the love of those we’ve lost.
We would love the opportunity to meet you and assist you in the memorializing process. Please reach out to us at 937.310.1035, or by email: matt@morrisonmonuments.com